You should know that while a good kiss makes for a good moment, it doesn’t have any value. Charm is only glimmer on the surface, so don’t put too much stock in the butterflies because they will eventually settle, and that’s nothing to be afraid of—it doesn’t mean that you have settled. It just means that there’s more substance to lean on than the frail nature of the spark between lovers. That electric current isn’t what keeps you from walking away in the middle of a fight, it’s not what makes you want to be honest when the truth will hurt, and it doesn’t give any valid indications of whether you two are good for each other. To be in a committed relationship, you can appreciate chemistry, but you must see through it and choose to love in a way that lasts even when there are glitches in the passion.